Den vietnamesiske forbindelse

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1 Den vietnamesiske forbindelse

2 Vi har altid: Tænkt på den biologiske familie og deres tab, - og det de gik glip af Følt det var naturligt (og slet ikke farligt) at skabe kontakt til den biologiske familie Villet have vietnamesiske roll models omkring vores børn Tænkt at den vietnamesiske kultur nu er en del af vores familie

3 Adoptiv historien Godkendt 1996 medlem af DVF Daniel Bang 1998 Katrine Mai 1999 Biologiske søskende Mange og rigtige data om den biologiske familie Relationsskabelse til den vietnamesiske familie

4 Kulturmødet Fælles rejse i møder med faren og moren 2 møder hvor Daniel Myndighederne styrer møderne træghed i systemet til den direkte kontakt

5 Tilfældighedernes spil - og en eller anden psykologisk trang. Behov for nyt projekt Akademikerne ville ikke tage bolden Idealisme og vilje Samlede en gruppe Både eget projekt og Allianceprojekt med CARE og OVE

6 Rammer for NGO arbejde? Alle kan! En registreret forening Min. 50 medlemmer eller bidragydere Eksisteret et år

7 Den lange vej til godkendelse 1. ansøgning i 2003 Godkendt ultimo 2004 Start 1. januar 2005 Afslag - rejse - betinget godkendelse - godkendelse Gruppen går i gang

8 Little Rose Warm Shelter piger, alder 8-18 år Sexuelt misbrugte Risiko for at blive misbrugt Efterladte Gadebørn Traffickede 5 ansatte

9 Hvad tilbyder LRWS? Sørger for papirer Forsøget familiegenforening Husly, mad, rekreation Kreativ udfoldelser Skolegang og lektiehjælp Lægehjælp Psykologisk rehabilitering Anerkendende tilgang

10 Hvad har vi arbejdet med? Anerkende tilgang Reflekterende team Større skriftlighed Forebyggelse af sexuelt misbrug Social læring + taknemmelighed, skam, tilgivelse og flow Fortalervirksomhed Fundraising

11 Om vores partner og beboerne HCWF (HCMC Child Welfare Foundation) LRWS (Little Rose Warm Shelter) Beboerne - case stories

12 Case story 1 Tiên s parents divorced. She lived with her mother and grandmother. Her father got in jail for selling drug, and died in the prison afterward. Also, Tiên s mother used to be addicted to drug, and at present undergoes detoxification. Tiên s grandmother was too weak to take care of her. She often hung around with friends at the parks, which may expose her to danger. The educator of LRWS met and brought her to LRWS for help.

13 Case story 2 Tạ Cẩm Tú and Tạ Cẩm Tiên are twin sisters. They often gathered together with friends at the Park of Pham Dinh Ho (in Dist. 6), inhaling super glue, stealing, and going about with bad boys. This may expose her to sexual abuse and other social evils. Introduced by Mr Nam a social worker of Cay Mai group, the educator of LRWS approached to Tú and brought her to LRWS for help.

14 Case story 3 Lá s parents divorced when she was very young. She lived with her father afterward. Where her mother moved is still unknown to her. In 2010, La s father died. Fortunately, she met and lived with her mother. However, La s mother did not give her appropriate care but gambled. Awfully, La s relatives had the intention to sell her to Cambodia. Through media, La came to LRWS and asked for help to attend vocational training.

15 Case story 4 Sang s family was poor. Her father was a drunken mason. Her mother did odd jobs with unstable income. For this reason, Sang had to quit schooling early to work as a clothes shop-girl. Recently, Sang s father hit her and her mother very often due to they had no money for him to drink. She was thrown out of house by her father and the educator of LRWS met and sent her to LRWS.

16 Hvordan går det de tidligere beboere?

17 Samarbejde med andre NGOere Stairway Foundation - Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Special Pædagogisk Forlag - Social og Emotionel Læring LIN Center - fundraising træning VIDAFA - spredning af information til Hanoi Film om trafficking...

18 Kontaktdata Facebook: Little Rose Warm Shelter og The Shelter Collection Konto: Paypal:

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